i am of a view that girls always take guys for granted. that girl could be your mom, sister, friend or to be very specific girlfriend. i am yet to find a person who will counter me on this. i have gone through plenty of such experiences. lets start with mom very important part of our life. "ho ho ha yeil na sangal tya vele ver" (he will be there on time u want him to come) is looks to be a a very formal sentence or trust of mother on her child that he'll not say No, there has to be one but without asking you.i mean, c'mon we can have our othe commitments! you should at least consult us. we'll definitely not say "No" to our moms right? so why to take extra advantage of it? but no one will consult you as if we have no other work and nothing else to do!
the same story continues with sisters too. my brother will get me this thing for sure or he'll prepare snacks or he will arrange dishes before dinner are to most commonly assumed things by sister. seriously i am not running away from reality n responsibility, but why it is like she will not do it on her own when half the times she knows she can do it better?
girlfriends are seriously not to be spoken about episode. "i know you'll do it for me", "i knew you will be waiting anxiously", " i knew you'll call me", "i think you'll say sorry for this"," please leave everything and come for me", "we will talk later i am watching a serial now" etc etc. all the sentences above are self explanatory.
in other words, we are loosing our identity to a person whom we love the most. we leave our happiness, our work, our time, money, strength, brains for our loved ones. in other words we literally live for some one else. then too, at the end of the day, when we expect this same things to roll back for you, you'll have all non-sesne. " i cant your doormat", "you cant do anything for me", " you are seriously sick","you seem to be always busy when i want you tp help me" and all sort of talks will take the floor!
so m asking Y it is so?
trust me the only answer that i could find for this is "I love all this ladies in my life". my mom my sisters and my wld b wife! but even m expecting it all to get back to me as well!
the same story continues with sisters too. my brother will get me this thing for sure or he'll prepare snacks or he will arrange dishes before dinner are to most commonly assumed things by sister. seriously i am not running away from reality n responsibility, but why it is like she will not do it on her own when half the times she knows she can do it better?
girlfriends are seriously not to be spoken about episode. "i know you'll do it for me", "i knew you will be waiting anxiously", " i knew you'll call me", "i think you'll say sorry for this"," please leave everything and come for me", "we will talk later i am watching a serial now" etc etc. all the sentences above are self explanatory.
in other words, we are loosing our identity to a person whom we love the most. we leave our happiness, our work, our time, money, strength, brains for our loved ones. in other words we literally live for some one else. then too, at the end of the day, when we expect this same things to roll back for you, you'll have all non-sesne. " i cant your doormat", "you cant do anything for me", " you are seriously sick","you seem to be always busy when i want you tp help me" and all sort of talks will take the floor!
so m asking Y it is so?
trust me the only answer that i could find for this is "I love all this ladies in my life". my mom my sisters and my wld b wife! but even m expecting it all to get back to me as well!
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