y so?

i am of a view that girls always take guys for granted. that girl could be your mom, sister, friend or to be very specific girlfriend. i am yet to find a person who will counter me on this. i have gone through plenty of such experiences. lets start with mom very important part of our life. "ho ho ha yeil na sangal tya vele ver" (he will be there on time u want him to come) is looks to be a a very formal sentence or trust of mother on her child that he'll not say No, there has to be one but without asking you.i mean, c'mon we can have our othe commitments! you should at least consult us. we'll definitely not say "No" to our moms right? so why to take extra advantage of it? but no one will consult you as if we have no other work and nothing else to do!
the same story continues with sisters too. my brother will get me this thing for sure or he'll prepare snacks or he will arrange dishes before dinner are to most commonly assumed things by sister. seriously i am not running away from reality n responsibility, but why it is like she will not do it on her own when half the times she knows she can do it better?
girlfriends are seriously not to be spoken about episode. "i know you'll do it for me", "i knew you will be waiting anxiously", " i knew you'll call me", "i think you'll say sorry for this"," please leave everything and come for me", "we will talk later i am watching a serial now" etc etc. all the sentences above are self explanatory.
in other words, we are loosing our identity to a person whom we love the most. we leave our happiness, our work, our time, money, strength, brains for our loved ones. in other words we literally live for some one else. then too, at the end of the day, when we expect this same things to roll back for you, you'll have all non-sesne. " i cant your doormat", "you cant do anything for me", " you are seriously sick","you seem to be always busy when i want you tp help me" and all sort of talks will take the floor!
so m asking Y it is so?
trust me the only answer that i could find for this is "I love all this ladies in my life". my mom my sisters and my wld b wife! but even m expecting it all to get back to me as well!

mumbai meri jaan

we owe a lot to mumbai! this city gives lights to plenty of families in the world as people across the world come to here to get what ever they always wanted. Mumbai is city of dreams. u can be a vadapav wala to chinese wala, autowala to taxiwala, dhobi to laundrywala n so on. this city will never care about what layer of economy you belong to. it will just ask u want to do in your life and it will give you not 1 or 2 but thousands of options to fulfill your dreams. yeah, not to forget engaging all your efforts and time behind that is your responsibility.
i think real mumbaikar like me can not survive anywhere else in india. this city has a pace which actually gets into your blood and then you get use to it so much that lovely and peaceful place like goa looks weird after 4-5 days of stay. yo go in any part and that to anytime you'll get everything you want from medicines to alcohol, from MASAKA PAv to burji pav to chinese, drugs, girls..
the best thing of mumbai or mumbaikar is the Spirit this place has. whether it could be some natural calamities or terrorist activities or in downfall of building, mumbaikar will forget all the religions n relations n get on the road to help. they will work on social grounds without expecting any recognition.and even after this he will never skip his work.
living in city like mumbai teaches you a lesson for a lifetime, "struggle". as the idiom"the better fish in the lake can only swim till the sea" makes mumbaikar habitual to changes occurring, n gets better out of every body.
hats off t this city !
i love you MUMBAI!

shades of me!

I never believed in people nor in relations. cause they all screw you up! at the end of the day you'll find yourself alone. every body has a habit of back bitching. people tend 2 talk on your back as they love doing that. but yes i'll tell u, m not the 1 of this kind. i talk da same on da face as i do on ur back. plenty of times ppl find me "MOOH FATT", "arrogant" or "over smart" but i give it a damn. why should i not let the person know what i feel about him/ her? what i think is what people say about you does not really change the "Real You" as this things never change what you are from inside.
people say " you don't care for people" but trust me caring for any one has nothing to do with back bitching man. i think any one care about anything without criticizing it.
this days i had seen another case that proves my observation towards life to be very true. there was a family of two brothers and two sisters all married in my neighborhood. they all were together until very recently. they use meet over festivals. one of the brother use to stay in a bungalow in my locality and obviously was high educated and works and big posts and all. others were not that great. other siblings were always jealous of him. this fellow use to take care of everybody and was good to everybody. recently he fond a big hole made by all his siblings over all this year. they just ignited the fire against this fellow in their parents mind and how he is self centered and only looks welfare of his wife and the son and ignores every one else. this thing went to such an extent that he is now on the verge of leaving this bunglow, which his parents are forcibly taking from him and they want to see him on the road!
this one is just an experiences that i had over this 23 years of my life. and there's plenty more in stores with me that will always keep me one step away from relatives or atleast will always keep me alert where i cant keep the distance.